Saturday, 3 September 2016

How to discover yourself.

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As a girl it is important for you to know yourself. Know what your temperament is, know what your character traits are, know what you like and what you hate. Know your skin type, know the type of clothes that fit you, know the type of hairstyle that matches your face, know the colors that will blend well with your skin tone.

Always take time out to do an introspection. Discover yourself. Know what your weaknesses are and what your strengths are, in all aspects of your life. Make a table like the one below, and keep it diligently so you can always refer to it and update it:

Stuff I Like
What I like about myself
Stuff I hate
What I hate about myself
Passions I have
Causes I care about
Habits to change
My strengths
My weaknesses










You can make a questionnaire in the form of a table like the one below and give your close friends and family members to fill, so you know what they love the most about you and what they hate.
What you don’t like about me
What you like about me
Why you keep me around as your friend
Attitudes you want me to change





The information you’ll get from your list and the answers your family and friends give you will give you a clear picture of your temperament, personality and character traits. It will help you discover who you are. The table below is a guide to discover your temperament:


     TEMPERAMENTS

Sanguine
Phlegmatic
Choleric
Melancholic
C
H
A
R
A
C
T
E
R
I
S
T
I
C
S
W
E
A
K
N
E
S
S
E
S
-Impulsive
-Disrespectful
-Disloyal
-Naïve
-Usually late
-Sarcastic
-Shameless
-Forgetful
-Undisciplined
-Too Loud/Noisy
-Disorganized
-Easily distracted
-Insincere
-Self Absorbed
-Hot tempered
-Stubborn
-Timid/Shy/hides emotions
-Conservative,
prefers stability to uncertainty & change
-Lazy
-Stubborn
-Passive aggressive
-Indecisive
-Permissive
-Unenthusiastic
-Discouraging
-Not goal oriented
-Sarcastic
-Too compromising
-Undisciplined
-Non Participative

-Impulsive
-Aggressive
-Unemotional
-Manipulative
-Unsatisfied
-Short tempered
-Insensitive
-Restless
-Domineering
-Touchy
-don’t have time for people
-Low on empathy
-Inflexible
-Impatient
-Rude
-Tactless
-Unable to relax
-Argumentative
-Believe in tough love
-Unsociable
-Loner
-Easily hurt
-Bashful
-Reserved
-Pessimistic
-Rigid
-Fussy
-Revengeful
-Unforgiving
-Moody
-Obsessive
-Too cautious
-Negative
-Procrastinator
-unsatisfied with themselves and others
-Perfectionist
-Difficult to please
-Deeply affected by tragedy


S
T
R
E
N
G
T
H
S
-Leadership
-Passionate
-Very sensitive
-Carefree
-Lively
-Enthusiastic
-Great sense of humor
-Easy going
-Responsive
-Expressive
-Easily makes friends
-Sociable
-Outgoing
-Charismatic
-Confident
-Spontaneous
-Fun-lover
-Warm hearted
-Pleasant
-Optimistic
-Energetic
-Calm/quiet
-Even tempered
-Reliable
-Patient
-Tolerant
-Gentle
-Controlled
-Soft Spoken
-Thoughtful
-Easily makes friends
-Observant
-Relaxed
-rational
-Content with themselves
-Consistent
-Kind
-Peacemaker
-Affectionate
-Diplomatic
-Loyal/faithful
-Passive
-Usually provides right answers
-Active
-Optimistic
-daring
-Great in emergency
-Confident
-Good at problem solving
-Excitable
-Ambitious
-Passionate
-Leader-like
-Focused
-Efficient
-Practical
-Good at planning
-Good at problem solving
-Thoughtful
-Analytic
-Serious
-Diligent
-Sensitive to others
-Critical
-Considerate
-Cautious
-Organized
-Schedule oriented
-Creative in poetry and art
-Works well alone
-Good at preventing problems


So everybody has at least one of the following temperaments:

Ø  Sanguin – 100% pure Sanguin characteristics
Ø  Phlegmatic- 100% pure Phlegmatic characteristics
Ø  Choleric – 100% pure choleric characteristics
Ø  Melancholic- 100% pure melancholic characteristics
Ø  Phleg/Mel – A mixture of Phlegmatic characteristics and Melancholic characteristics with the Phlegmatic characteristics being more dominant
Ø  Mel/Phleg - A mixture of Phlegmatic characteristics and Melancholic characteristics with the Melancholic characteristics being more dominant
Ø  Mel/Chlor- A mixture of Melancholic characteristics and Choleric characteristics with the Melancholic characteristics being more dominant
Ø  Mel/San - A mixture of Melancholic characteristics and Sanguin characteristics with the Melancholic characteristics being more dominant
Ø  Phleg/San - A mixture of Phlegmatic characteristics and Sanguin characteristics with the Phlegmatic characteristics being more dominant
Ø  Phleg/Chlor - A mixture of Phlegmatic characteristics and Choleric characteristics with the Phlegmatic characteristics being more dominant
Ø  Chlor/San- A mixture of Choleric characteristics and Sanguin characteristics with the Choleric characteristics being more dominant
Ø  San/Phleg - A mixture of Sanguin characteristics and phlegmatic characteristics with the Sanguin characteristics being more dominant
Ø  San/Chlor - A mixture of Sanguin characteristics and Choleric characteristics with the Sanguin characteristics being more dominant
Ø  Chlor/Mel - A mixture of Choleric characteristics and Melancholic characteristics with the Choleric characteristics being more dominant
Ø  San/Mel - A mixture of Sanguin characteristics and Melancholic characteristics with the Sanguin characteristics being more dominant
Ø  Chlor/Phleg - A mixture of Choleric characteristics and Phlegmatic characteristics with the Choleric characteristics being more dominant

So which one are you? I am Phleg/San J



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