Tuesday, 20 September 2016

How can we add value to our relationships and interactions?

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Recently I have been trying to figure out why so many nudes are going viral…. The number of guys sliding in the DM to request pictures from girls is alarming. So Beta Girls decided to do a little research on this issue.  

After a little research we found out that a good number of relationships have as major activity  sex. Some couples  didn’t even know the full names of their partners and they have been together for months… Which indicated that they do not even have conversations past where they are going to for a drink and whose house they are spending the night at… which really is very sad. So we arrived at the theory that because these relationships center around sex,, nudes  and tapes are inevitable because those are sex centered activities. We all agree that spicing things up is very necessary, but does it only have to be something concerning sex?

So here at Beta Girls we have decided to find out from the other couples what they actually do to make more meaning out of their relationships  so that it is not just about the sex and we had some very interesting contributions.
Check out the list  below:

-Reading or studying a book together
-Going to Church
-Watching movies
-Travelling together
-Playing games (scrabble, Charades, Heads up, etc)
-Cracking jokes
-Playing a sport
-Sharing knowledge about work/school issues
-Carrying out a charitable endeavor together
-Going out for dinner at different restaurants to try different flavors
-Discussing personal goals and plans with each other
-Trying new recipes together
-Accompanying each other once in a while to one activity the other is very interested in.

And before you say it's not possible in Cameroon… all these couples are in Cameroon. These activities help you connect with your partner on another level without having to … you know share nude pictures of yourself which would probably end up going viral after a quarrel. 

These activities can also extend to our interactions with each other's friends to reduce time left to gossip.
Our interactions should make us better and elevate our mindset and not the other way round.

Please share with us some other activities or ways in which you think we can make our relationships more meaningful. Write to us at forbetagirls@gmail.com.
We would love to hear from you.
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